Musings and lessons

Managing the Mental Load on the Farm: Practical Strategies to Ease the Pressure

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As we all know, farming isn’t just a job—it’s a way of life, filled with both incredible highs and challenging lows. Right now, many of us are dealing with the tough realities of a difficult season: dry conditions, frost damage, and endless “what ifs.” It’s a lot to carry, and when you add in the regular pressures of family, finances, and relationships, it’s no wonder that so many of us feel overwhelmed.


I’ve been right there with you. Over the past few weeks, I’ve been thinking a lot about t…

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Navigating Tough Times on the Farm

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It's no secret that life on the farm comes with its fair share of ups and downs, moments of achievement and success alongside times of intense struggle. If you’re a farmer in South Australia, like I am, you’ve likely felt like the past six months have been a rollercoaster where the ups have steadily faded. This past week, in particular, has been the icing on the cake that none of us wanted to eat. The severe dry conditions and some severe frosts across the state have placed immense pressure on o…

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May Monthly Trailmarker

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May Monthly Trailmarker: Steph Schmidt - Farm Life Psych

I'm sitting here with the fireplace finally going, listening to the beautiful, beautiful sound of rain on the roof. I'm also typing from the couch because my 6-year-old is home again for the third time this week. We are a chorus of coughs and sniffles. 

It's the 30th of May, and today is the first time we've lit the fire. (We actually probably didn't really need to, but it's nice to have).  I don't know about you, but this ra…

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Watch out for the comparison competition

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The Comparison Competition

How often do you find yourself getting caught up in those thoughts of...
"I'm more tired than he is"...
"I'm working harder than she is"...
"They got more rain than us"....
"Everyone else has it easier than us"...
"He gets a break more often than me"....
"She gets to sleep in more than me"...

Yeah.... Me too...

This article is a little reminder that we all get caught in the comparison competition at times, but it's not always the most helpful thing that we can…

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March Monthly Trailmarker

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Your Permission Slip

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What do you need permission to do? (or not do?)

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Little Rocks - Getting Present

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This week's Reminder:

Be Present

Being present is not always about "feeling good". Rather,  cultivating our ability to be present,  in this moment right now can help us to step out of the stories in our mind which amplify pain and struggle.  Getting present helps us to just be - even if that present moment does involve pain or discomfort.  

Growing present moment awareness helps reduce the suffering and pain cycle by turning the volume switch down when our mind tries to deafen us with stories…

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February Trailmarker

Monthly Trailmarker: Steph Schmidt Farm Life Psych

Gone are my days at the beach, and here are the days of office work, crutching, being on time for school pickups, and grocery shopping. It takes a bit of time to click back into the routine, but then again, routine gets thrown out the window frequently anyway. One day at a time, one moment at a time!


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- February Livestock SA Wellbeing Sessions for Livestock Agents & Producers in South Au…

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Put yourself in the Picture

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Put Yourself in the Picture - Take Care of YOU in 2024

Righto, so we are already halfway through the first month of 2024! Some of you may have enjoyed a break over Christmas/New Years. Others (like my family and I), have been continuing to work through the ongoing farm jobs to be tackled. We had a soft finish to harvest around the New Year, went straight into a few hot weeks of crutching and shearing, thankfully we are finished (for now) and doing final prep to head away for our annual week at …

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November - Monthly Trailmarker

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Monthly Trailmarker: Steph Schmidt Farm Life Psych

It's been a busy month (is it ever not), and the countdown is now on to Christmas and 2024. As I hope everyone will take some time away from their inboxes at the end of December, this will also be my last trailmarker for 2023. I'll leave you with a few reflections and thoughts to ponder as the year wraps up.
Here's what's been happening in my world in November.

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- Coming up in 2…

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