Musings and lessons
Farm Life
Managing the Mental Load on the Farm: Practical Strategies to Ease the Pressure
As we all know, farming isn’t just a job—it’s a way of life, filled with both incredible highs and challenging lows. Right now, many of us are dealing with the tough realities of a difficult season: dry conditions, frost damage, and endless “what ifs.” It’s a lot to carry, and when you add in the regular pressures of family, finances, and relationships, it’s no wonder that so many of us feel overwhelmed.
I’ve been right there with you. Over the past few weeks, I’ve been thinking a lot about t…
Navigating Tough Times on the Farm
It's no secret that life on the farm comes with its fair share of ups and downs, moments of achievement and success alongside times of intense struggle. If you’re a farmer in South Australia, like I am, you’ve likely felt like the past six months have been a rollercoaster where the ups have steadily faded. This past week, in particular, has been the icing on the cake that none of us wanted to eat. The severe dry conditions and some severe frosts across the state have placed immense pressure on o…
What is Psychological Flexibility, and why is it the #1 tool every farmer needs?
For me, it is about creating space for regular daily practices – e.g., mindful breathing or just bringing awareness to my daily habits (having a shower with awareness); being more open and learning to skillfully relate to challenging feelings – anxiety, frustration, overwhelm, disappointment – they are all going to show up whether I want them there…
Lessons from the Shearing Shed
Shearing Wisdom: Life lessons from the shearing shed
It's the eve of our final day of shearing, and it feels like we have been shearing forever, even if it's just been a month (with a week and a few days off here and there). For us, shearing is all hands on deck. My roles vary from getting sheep in, helping drafting (my 9 year old is a gun drafter), roustabouting, and probably the most important one - making sure everyone is fed. When I was working full time as a psychologist, I used to daydrea…
Let's talk about alcohol
A few secrets from my daily life
I'm a psychologist and a mental health advocate, and I want to let you in on a few secrets.
I don't do 30 minutes of exercise daily;
I don't practice 20 minutes of mindfulness daily;
I don't set an intention or affirmation for the day before I mindfully get myself out of bed, journal for 20 minutes, and approach the day with a smile on my face - every day;
I do get angry
I do yell
I do get sad
I do cry
I do get overwhelmed
and yes, I absolutely get frustrated, disappointed, regretful, a…